I would also argue that the tenuousness of current peer to peer socialization, demands a strong institutional meta-regulator, including state forms, that compensate for weaknesses in existing ‘spontaneous’ social structures,
Michel
]]>Seems there might be a middle ground between the collapsing family and tenuous peer-groups. Socialization has always involved a blending of the two, and to presume otherwise is to accept a fairly groundless image of cultural history. “Families” are almost always extended kin groups, and the idea of “kin” is generally more nebulous than the blood ties we tend to accept now. And religious communities are very often communities bound around a particular social project, not simply some ethnic identifier. I mean this is sort of a problem, right? Are the categories of social association “ethnic” descriptors, or are they shared projects? Historically association has always entailed both general tendencies, to varying degrees, because ultimately any social clustering is based on the sharing of memes, habits, and experiences.
The difference now seems to be that the speed of communication, alongside the destabilization of the nuclear family in the West, is just tilting the balance a bit more towards raw association without public ritual and routinized habit. I think that means that we have to reinvent sociality to accommodate this new dynamism, which people clearly are trying to do.
So instead of focusing so much on “people” as the unit of socialization- the family, the peer group- for an individual subject, maybe we should just shift the focus to actual projects. Projects, partially discrete, partially open, bring together family and peer bonds, emotional, aesthetic, and utilitarian needs, etc. A project group allows a sort of collaborative reflexivity, taking the edge off a little.
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